// Classifying females//

There are so many different words to use as a compliment for a female. And although all of those words are similar, the difference between them are dramatically large. And different words actually suit different girls. A girl can be hot, but it doesn’t mean that she’s cute.

I think beautiful is the highest form of a compliment. I hate to use the word hot when it comes to females because it’s kind of degrading. When I think of a hot girl, I see some blond or whatever with a physically attractive body, and some lustful face. And that’s about all I see in the girl. If personality isn’t taken into account, and looks were the only trait that was meant to be used when looking for a partner, then I wouldn’t marry somebody “hot”. Because they just don’t seem like wife material. Despite everybody wanting to be hot, like people in magazines, hot girls are so common. There are so many normal looking hot girls, and it’s nothing special. I think it’s a phase for guys who just want some trophy lady.

Sexy stems from the word sex. A sexy girl would be somebody that interests you in a sexual way, and would usually be seductive looking, and all a guy would be thinking is, “I want her in my bed.”

Pretty is usually related to how a girl’s face looks. A pretty girl would have a very lovely face, and look like flowers and unicorns. Pretty is very similar to the next two words.

I think cute is a very flattering word. Alot of females don’t like to be classified as the word cute, because they see the word as something used for puppies and kittens. And they are right. But they are wrong to not like to be classified as that. Cute isn’t only looks. Cute is how you talk, how you act, and just your personality in general. Puppies aren’t only cute because of how they look. They’re cute because they walk around, and making little mistakes and do goofy things that makes you love them.

Finally, beautiful is the ultimate word. Beautiful isn’t something that is only for the outer appearance. Beautiful is inside and out. It’s a combination of all the other words, and more. When I look at a beautiful girl, everything about her makes me happy. I could have one hour of sleep during the night, and be very tired and grumpy, but as soon as she walks into class, I am filled with energy. What I like about beautiful is that nobody has the same standards for beautiful. Different males will see different females as beautiful, and their views wouldn’t be similar to another guy’s views.

A beautiful woman is one that you want to marry. If you love someone, you will think they are the most beautiful person in the world. Many people think beautiful is all about looks, but it’s more than that. Beautiful is so pure, that it applies to everybody. Everybody is beautiful simply because they are them. Do I mean beautiful in the complimenting way? No, I mean it in the spiritual and loving way.It goes beyond words. In fact, there is no such thing as an ugly person. Unless you have an ugly personality.

Nevertheless, don’t judge people simply on looks. Get to know a person, and find out why they are who they are. You never know what you’ll find. And if you have a chance, take it. Don’t let it get away, like I do. But don’t treat females as a piece of meat. Don’t treat them as a game. There are so many things to respect females about. But that will be another post.

Thanks for reading this overly long post.

// I hate it when people ask me who I have a crush on in real life, or whether I think somebody is hot.//

It’s hard for me to tell them that I’m not really interested in the typical girls of today’s society. I feel like this generation is going down hill in terms or morals and values, and that most females are just a product of society and the media. There aren’t many girls who share my interests, and there aren’t many girls who would look twice at me, because I’m not considered “hot” or “cute” by standards. Sure, physical attraction is what leads somebody get to know another person more, but why aren’t there people who just look at a person and think, “I wonder what kind of things this person likes? I wonder what they’re’s thinking of?” I know I do that. I don’t talk alot because I like to just stare around and observe things. I try to guess where a person is coming from, or do they look like they’re experiencing some hardships or are they truly happy?

So when people ask me if I have a crush on somebody, I usually just smile. Sometimes, I’ll say no. But ther truth is, I do have a crush on somebody. I have a crush on a woman that most likely doesn’t exist. Or at least, one that I’ll probably never meet. That’s why I like to just admire celebrity women, like Rachel McAdams and Ellen Page. Because even though they’re not perfect, from what I could read or hear about them, in my mind, they are perfect. And I guess that answers another question. I don’t believe in soul mates. If there is actually one perfect being for each individual, then what are the chances that the special one would be living near you?

I don’t like judgng whether somebody is hot or not. Everybody is beautful in their own special way. Who am I to judge a person’s appearance? Everybody has their own preference. The word “hot” when used to describe physical attractiveness, is a word that is rarely in my vocabulary. I would say cute, or pretty or beautiful, but I just find “hot” too sparse of a word.

And the thing is, when you’re “hot” by society’s standards, you most likely are in that position because you follow the trends, worry a little too much about appearance, and have a personality inflicted on you by the media.

And this nice body thing. What exactly is it that makes human beings so drawn to certain parts of a body. Does bigger breasts mean you look better? Does a bigger penis mean you are a better lover? If you love somebody, then that person is like the world to you. That’s the reason why my favourite feature of a person is their smile. It doesn’t matter how you look, a true smile is always pure and perfection.